"How unjust life is, to make physical charm so immediately apparent or absent, when one can get away with vices untold for ever."

“The middle years, caught between children and parents, free of neither: the past stretches back too densely, it is too thickly populated, the future has not yet thinned out.”

“Men and women can never be close. They can hardly speak to one another in the same language. But are compelled, forever, to try, and therefore even in defeat there is no peace.”

“Family life itself, that safest, most traditional, most approved of female choices, is not a sanctuary: It is, perpetually, a dangerous place.”

“Sometimes it seems the only accomplishment my education ever bestowed on me, the ability to think in quotations.”

“The human mind can bear plenty of reality but not too much unintermittent gloom.”

“England's not a bad country. It's just a mean, cold, ugly, divided, tired, clapped-out, post-imperial, post-industrial slag-heap covered in polystyrene hamburger cartons.”