"Chuang Tzu's wife died and Hui Tzu came to console him, but Chuang Tzu was sitting, legs akimbo, bashing a battered tub and singing. Hui Tzu said, 'You lived as man and wife, she reared your children. At her death surely the least you should be doing is to be on the verge of weeping, rather than banging the tub and singing: this is not right!' Chuang Tzu said, 'Certainly not. When she first died, I certainly mourned just like everyone else! However, I then thought back to her birth and to the very roots of her being, before she was born. Indeed, not just before she was born but before the time when her body was created. Not just before her body was created but before the origin of life's breath. Her life's breath wrought a transformation and she had a body. Her body wrought a transformation and she was born. Now there is yet another transformation and she is dead. She is like the four seasons in the way that spring, summer, autumn and winter follow each other. She is now at peace, lying in her chamber, but if I were to sob and cry it would certainly appear that I could not comprehend the ways of destiny. This is why I stopped.'"
React to this quote
More by Zhuangzi
See allResonant Thoughts
"Time seemed stationary, yet the painful pressure of time was constantly felt. If only the pressure would crush the life out of him and allow him simply to sink into the inviting movement of clock hand…"
Explore Further
Related Quotes
"To speak a truth that belongs to another is untruth, for speaking belongs to living, hence to speak another…"
— David L. Norton"Tyrants who get into power make life miserable for everyone."
— Temple Grandin"Is not this Medium much rarer within the dense Bodies of the Sun, Stars, Planets, and Comets, than in the e…"
— Isaac Newton"I have made it a rule of my life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of en…"
— Katherine Mansfield"The cliché organizes life; it expropriates people's identity; it becomes ruler, defense lawyer, judge, and …"
— Václav Havel"When we describe a process, or make out an invoice, or photograph a tree, we create models; without them we…"
— Gerhard Richter